Etiquette?..

So in coming in to work today there was a question circulating on the radio. " My mother in law pass' out wish list for her Birthday and Christmas, Mothers Day without being asked."

Is it appropriate for an adult to have a Birthday, Christmas wish list to provide to family and friends, etc.?

Tell us why is it OK.

Tell us why it is not OK.

Etiquette is defined as decorum, propriety, formal requirement, governing behavior in polite society; conventional form; appropriate for a good breeding;